My ex did the same thing. She talked about getting married. Moving to Poland and getting citizenship. She did get pregnant while on birth control and lead me on after that for 2+ months. She planned an abortion behind my back despite myself and her family supporting her having the baby. She has the cutest 19 month old boy ever who I loved. I was loved by her whole family and invited in as family. Her loss. Still broke my heart. This happened a month ago. Our child would have been so cute 😍