My hot take: Dating apps ruined the dynamics of dating. 80-90% of women are chasing the top 5-10% of men. Who aren’t about to settle down when they are getting all the women. So, then women think all men are trash cause they are going after the top 5-10% of men who constantly cheat and friend zoning men that would actually marry them. You punch above your weight you’re going to get taken advantage of, but sadly most women have a list of expectations. But think about this: