That expectation can feel overwhelming. I understand there are layers to this situation, but with that initial impression, I would likely move on. One of the best pieces of advice my mother gave me since I was young: “Prioritize your own happiness without depending on someone else. Your partner should simply enhance that happiness.” At the end of the day, we all crave connection. We need each other, even if we’re reluctant to admit it. I’ve put a lot of effort into my personal growth. ⏬(2/5)

Yeah that is a no go, and still post exist like that, very often accompanied with a "spicy" photo. Women who present themselves like that are asking for troubled messages, of which they complain afterwards.