One thinks a real man pays the bills and speaks softly, the other thinks a real man doesn't have to pay the bills because a real woman can pay her own. She also thinks a man who speaks softly is sassy. One says a real man leads her, the other says a real man follows his wife. Bro, I'm moving to Africa. These American women are a lost cause and the men with them. NONE of you have any sense of reality.