I decided to use Facebook and Messenger only for updates. If it weren’t essential for school, work, and community, I’d have deleted my account. Now, I only have my immediate family added. Why? I don’t want to hear updates about others or share my own. I’m still building emotional intelligence and trying not to feel envious of others’ success. It’s less about crab mentality and more about focusing on myself. It’s easier not to know until I’m more secure in my career path. 2/5

We're on the same boat! There's a phrase in a book I once read: "Nobody cares about you, about your outfit, your travels, etc... at the end of the day people have their own problems and they will not even remember how you dress that day..." Now, whenever I post something, that phrase keeps on lingering in my mind that I no longer post everything as well.

Me too! I want to go incognito na from socmed. Although I only posts highlights lang din naman, I just want to get rid of it na sana, somehow. I want to fee myself from seeking validation and just live my life. You know? Hehe. 🥹

On my end, I post a lot of my emotional stuff recently especially my thoughts about my dad dying. I want to cherish him share who he is and what I feel about my lost. But the reason behind it is to save it as a memory to look back once agter years passed and see how big my outlook and situation will change from those initial thoughts to who I will be in the future. I dont care who sees it or what, regardless if it is too public. I just dont care and I post whatever I want