Warning: I'm gonna get real and sad. I'm 37 years old. Never been in a relationship. Never been in love. Have never felt anything beyond platonic love. And I'm terrified there is something broken in me. Am I alone in this? How do I try if all I feel is anxiety and depression all. The. Time.

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29 分鐘內	Bruce A Wachter bruceawachter	Actually, I know two people who have lives very close to parallel with yours and they both managed to adjust very well just because there’s not a permanent other in your life doesn’t mean that there’s not an Other in your life. Just saying hang in there you’ll get through this, no idea how, lived long enough to see a lot of personal storms pass. That’s my encouragement. Hope it helps. Be blessed.
一小時內	Melissa melilyn872	We are told that we are only whole if we find our partner. That might be something you believe or maybe something you genuinely feel. Trust that you are whole as you are. And. It is okay to want to be partnered. In my experience, what you believe is what you live. My hope is that you can believe in all of your being that there's nothing wrong with you and that you are perfectly lovable and loving.
一小時內	Phil Lisak vigilantebagel	Im right there with you at 43. My 'relationships' have all been based on proximity and ive always been left behind when I was no longer new and interesting. Whatever that thing is that women want, I ain't got it. Good enough to provide, but not enough to love.
2 小時內	Beth Ellen Kerkove bkthecosmicdj	Really close to the same.
2 小時內	Laura Elizabeth Mathans theunderestimatedhobbit	I empathize with what you’re saying! I’m 36. I love myself and have the desire to be loved. Healthy Romantic Love wasn’t usually role modeled near me. Besides, working on myself in Therapy, I have researched what should a Healthy Romantic Relationship feel like, there are some relationship Therapists that give tips to single. 1/…
2 小時內	Laura Elizabeth Mathans theunderestimatedhobbit	2/ I am also a Wheelchair user and Chronically Ill so I have been surrounded by people trying to get me to internalize ‘ How would any man want You?!? ‘ and other problematic, ableist thoughts. I have to rise above Society’s noise and rise above my own fears. I love and I am worthy of love and men find me attractive. It’s just a journey to find the right one.
4 小時內	Kienan mcgrath swavey779	Same page club
5 小時內	Willow 肖柳 willowxiaoliu	You’re definitely not alone! I’m also 37 and never been in a relationship, it doesn’t bother me as much as people around me think it should though. I love being by myself (and my cat) and I have great friends and family. It sounds like a cliche, but loving yourself first is so much more important.
7 小時內	Astro Nerd healingmychironingemini	You gotta heal to attract
7 小時內	Jenn neverlandite	You're definitely not alone! I'm about to be 36 and in the same boat. Recently been starting to explore the idea that I'm probably on the Ace spectrum (Demi) and that's been really validating. Along with learning I'm AudHD and the way I experience feelings and relationships might just be different! hugs to you!