Since when does healing mean “wishing someone the best”? To every abuser - esp those who have se*ually assaulted others - I hope your hair gets caught on everything, I hope you step in gum in every parking lot, I hope your shirt gets stuck on every corner pulling you back unexpectedly and ripping a hole, I hope you drive over a nail, I hope the ice in your cup slams into your teeth unexpectedly and I hope you drop your groceries as you open your door. I do not wish you the best.