He was a complicated person with a history of DV himself and severely avoidant tendencies as a result. I remember the first time I went to his house and saw holes in his bedroom door from his father kicking it down. He never had a good role model for how to be a good partner. All he saw was abuse and violence. And hurt people hurt people. I’ve got some healing to do with this one. Thank you to everyone who has reached out to me, I appreciate your support. Truly. ♥️