She’s wrong for not wanting to feed tht baby. But I will say, as a kid, my momma NEVER sent us anywhere without food. And I mean NO WHERE. Idk if it was bc of ppl who think like this or bc she just wanted to make sure we ate like we would if we were at home. She knew how we ate & how much we ate so she wanted to make sure we were never hungry while we were at other ppls house