Your point is valid ..no one is exempt from single parenting …now i right around the time you said yall made it serious after being just friends for so long i knew you went wrong …the typa “get to know someone” means on a more serious note in a perfect world friends get married and live happily ever after in this world they lead double lives so you sit back and watch people for years before making commitments with them you can still plan but dont go all the way untill your “sure “ as can be