Let’s be real. If it’s genuinely for memories, post it, but choose "Only Me" or share it privately with your closest circle. Trust me, I’ve been there- gaslighting myself into thinking I was posting for memories when I was really seeking validation. Now, I’ve learned to keep my life in private like my fitness journey, sharing it only on Instagram without letting anyone know I’m working on my body. Let them be surprised when they see the results in person. It’s more rewarding to show the outcome.