Kissing them

Only sadness is accepted as an appropriate expression. I’m dead ass not able to cry about most deaths but keeping it lighthearted is also okay imo. People act like some of the funniest joke cracking mfs die and suddenly don’t appreciate humor. Laughter better be the main shit going around my service when I die. Don’t send me off so sadly.

Not telling people why the person died. It helps others process, and it is short sighted to keep that info only to the family.

selling OUR names wrong (more like putting wrong last names) the planners always mess up and likely never change it. making me look like a cousin- when i’m not? idk if it gets hard and they get lost with family tree, but cmon??

Taking pictures of the deceased and posting it on social media.