My book is not a romantasy. It has a romantic subplot, but there is no sexual content. It is a high fantasy heavily focused on character growth and relationship building. There is some language, but nothing severe. I have had a difficult time between calling it YA or Adult. The characters are 19, 22, and 23. There are certainly adult themes. But the writing is meant to be appropriate yet still feel real. Anyone else struggle with defining the audience? I feel like there is a lot of gray area.