I wish someone would explain the term “high-value man” because it’s sounds like a bunch of malarkey to ME! Either you’re a man or a dead beat! A man who works honestly as a janitor or an accountant (for example) and is faithful to his wife, dedicated to his family and does his utmost to take care of them is to ME an example of “high-value!” Yes you should marry someone with whom you’re equally yoked but a man having money or being an athlete or doctor doesn’t inherently make him “high-value!”