I’m a guy. We do have an opportunity to be powerful, but not to be a**holes. We all have fathers. Take a moment to think about them. Did they communicate with Love and Joy and happy leadership? Did you see your mom and dad laugh and celebrate and talk about things? Did your parents take the time to figure out how to communicate and educate without beating, isolating, guilting or shaming or yelling at each other or you and your siblings? Masculinity is not being attacked. It’s being redefined.