Don’t disclose your true traumas to a narcissist or a psychopath or share how other people have harmed you in the past. They will reenact that pain in even worse ways to hurt you even more in an attempt to feel significant and powerful. They actually get jealous when you talk about how others have harmed you because in their twisted minds, you obsessing over someone else represents “power.” They want that power for themselves. Only “THEY” get to hurt you — in their distorted philosophy.