A man must find himself before he finds his woman Otherwise, he will continuously damage every woman he comes into contact with along the way Every woman that man damages has less the chance of finding the man that has found himself Therefore creating more broken women to create more broken men Its a vicious cycle we face more than ever. Social media has proven to expedite that cycle The first step of change is to become aware of your own BULLSHIT. Do not blame another. Just change self.