lol. also in my 40s here.for a bit, i dated a guy in his late 50s (looked like he was in his 60s, but fooled himself to think that he looked young for his age. whatevs! 😅). nway, he said i was kiddish for being a keyboard warrior & seeking clarity about certain things.he got annoyed when i joked about how i was glad he wasn’t grumpy (he equated grumpiness to being old). gosh, his temper was awful! he left me stranded in a park after a fight. he’s forever blocked.worst dating exerience ever. ugh!