Another random thought. My family was a church going family. I got pregnant and had my son at 17. When I tell you everyone damned me to struggle and poverty, I mean everyone. I was told by the church I couldn’t return to church until I have birth, and even then I couldn’t say he was my son. My teachers and principal encouraged me to drop out (I was in 12th grade), I was told I would just have another kid, and be a part of the system. Even some of my family said some horrible things to me. I