At this point it’s not even a gender thing it’s a human decency thing… if I was making that much money and had someone who I love who was struggling (a partner or good friend) I would never do that regardless of gender. $250 for someone who makes that much won’t even make a difference for them, but it will certainly make a difference for her, so why do that

She’s seriously still dating him? Why? Clearly we know he’s not making that kind of money. And for him to send her a request for money? I really hope she puts herself and her worth first. There is no future with anyone like that. Focus on your education, living life and being happy. 🫶🏻🚷🔚👋🏼

How much he makes is his own, none of her business before they got married. It is his decision to whether treat his girlfriend to a trip or not, and it is within her right to not pay and not go. I would not say it is messed up. I would just say he could have treated her since it’s his friend group or at least pay partial to treat her. But if he earns that much and UNABLE to pay, then his financial management skill is an issue. Unless he is overly stingy with everything, otherwise it’s fine.

Extremely. The male counter arguments for “why should I pay for my GF?” Are you not dating for marriage, stop wasting her 20s and let her be loved by someone else.

I dated a guy for a few years. He made more money than me. Owned his own home yet charged me rent. Made me split the grocery bill 50/50 even tho he ate things I didn’t and ate way more than me. Refused to take me on a weekend trip because I didn’t have enough money to pay my share for the extravagant itinerary he had planned & wouldn’t compromise so I could afford to go. Wouldn’t take me on dates because he didn’t want to pay for me. Called me emotional bc I cried when my grandma died. Boy BYE.

Would pay for a platonic friend in this situation, my gf wouldn’t even have to think about it. Any other answer is pathetic, to me. Lots of pathetic men in the comments lmao.

Run

That nigga lying , he don’t make no 500k if he did she never would’ve gotten asked about that 250. Something not adding up , tell ya homegirl to run .

I feel he could have been more generous for sure as I would’ve done for my boyfriend, but if my boyfriend could pay it, he would. I am the person with the money in our relationship and my boyfriend tries his best to pay for anything when he can. It’s a partnership. She should communicate how she feels and discuss financial hardships with her partner. I also have learned that expectations can be a huge letdown when two people are not on the same page.

A man who sees you as his priority would never make you feel like a financial burden, especially when he’s living in abundance, and you’re out here building your future brick by brick. It’s not about the $250, it’s about the energy. A woman like her deserves to be cherished, supported, and celebrated, not casually Venmo-requested. Ladies, stay in your power. If he doesn’t align with the queen you are, step back and let him watch you thrive from afar.