It wouldn’t help them, but if you be sensitive to their desire for kids, that is all that matters. Some women who don’t want kids (or even women who only want two children) are really insensitive to another woman’s feelings when she wants children. I am sure that some people are insensitive to women who want to remain childless as well. I had a former friend who said horrible things about all women who wanted kids, because she didn’t want any (maybe she was being defensive.)

I hate when people say thar? Like ok?? that is very sad & yiu feel for them but what does that have to do with you? what kind of a stupid argument is it??

until i’m fully, 100% certain i want kids, i’m not having them. and that might be never. i’d rather regret not having kids than regret having them- thats a burden no child should have to bare.