Yes you can, but it is not like before. See it as a growing phase,initially you are trusting someone naively without doubt, imagine that person is part of your solid foundation in life. After the breach of trust, if you move one you will trust the person to a certain extent again, but if only a hint of a similar situation arises ,that let to the initial breach of trust, you are on high alert and all the forgotten resentment boils to the surface again, the question than is can you deal with this.

Its only what you tell yourselves for good dick. Cuz i never see women doing it for some chubbster