one of my friend is very scared of getting married, even she likes someone so much but he doesn’t even try to talk to her, when I ask him a reason, everytime he say: “yr wo kitni achi ladki hai, padh rahi hai, usne apne liye pata nhn kitne khuwab dekhe honge, na jaane kitni khuahishat hongi us ki, or me ek middle class family ka average kamane wala ladka hun, me maybe us ki zarooriyaat poori kar lu but me us ki khuwahishat nhn poori kar paun ga bas is dar ki wajah se me us se baat nhn karta” 🥹