Ladies, they WANT to provide for your needs, but you have to tell them what they are. You need to learn to speak one another’s languages. It takes time, and lots and lots of communication. Using the idea of “I want him to buy me flowers, but not bc I want him to. I want him to want to buy me flowers.” We set ourselves up for disappointment & set our men up for failure with this sort of mentality. As yourself: Why are the flowers so important to you to begin with? What is the core need being🧵