I don’t think it’s healthy to use social media to vent about something you don’t want to receive feedback about. If it’s all rhetorical, private journals exist for a reason. I’m not saying not to be vulnerable, but you have to move with knowledge that people with their perspectives have a right to say what they want in response to what you put out, they aren’t acting out of turn. It’s not cool when people are just mean, but we are here for exchange and you choose to open your posts to response.