Story time I think about a coffee date I had with a nice lady before I remarried. We'd texted for a few days, our vibes checked, but she admitted to being hesitant to date anyone. I basically said "Let's get coffee at this quiet little place I know. If you like me, cool. If not, nbd. No strings either way." We met, convo flowed, a fun time. Date winding down, she held the top of my hand on the table: 1/2