Can I be. Honest some people take what you say to heart and believe in what you post and with all do respect what happened to messaging one person at a time nowadays all people have to do is click on a bunch of names and send the exact same message to all of them. It takes away from your attractiveness one they realize your not even trying to have a one on one conversation . Hope I didn't addend you at all. By the way you still look good as hell.