Okay. I have been feeling hypocritical for a very long time. Um I think everyone has at least once called out upon a person who's “giving” pick me. Until at one point for me I let's say you have like a boyfriend or just talking to a guy friend at one point you should just me and him and then you act like a pick me and I realized I'm like duck (Unless you have self-control; that’s an entirely different story)