We also off red flags it's just what we choose to look past and what we choose to let us make it through the day those people that made it 30 40 something years don't you think they f****** had husbands and wives that they didn't they had red flags they chose to stick it out with them for the and I'm not saying everybody should do that but hey it had to be some ground in there where somebody made apologies and were willing to work together to make it that long and remember the love