I'm recently divorced after a decade marriage. This strikes home for me as I was so far from who I actually was by the end of the marriage that I'm not rediscovering myself. So yes. REMEMBER! I hate to admit it, but my constant catering to my wife slowly turned me into someone else and that made me unhappy without even realizing I was doing it. Now I'm alone, but me! Hard lesson to learn, but glad you're preaching it from the mountain tops! BeRealBeYou