i think the world get marriage and dating confused if yo shorty/dude cheat u can just leave them but if your wife /husband cheat yah gotta do the work to fix it u just cant up and say fck it bc what was the point of marrying them if u cant forgive and forget thats why i tell folks be mentaly and spiritualy prepared for that marriage shii its not for the weak yah see kirk and rahsheeda from love & hip hop thats the prime example he had a kid on her and all in there marriage it takes work frfr💯