I tend to go past crush to limerince if I focus on one person so to keep myself from getting obsessive I tend to find at least 3 people I find attractive just to split my attention.

I’m not entirely sure. When I have a crush, it feels like no one else compares to them. But maybe it depends on people’s perspectives or personalities. From a general perspective, though, a crush seems to be more about idealism or admiration ,something you find fascinating or adore. It’s kind of like how you can deeply love one cat but still feel okay adopting another. The concept of a 'crush' is so hard to define. Is it just a surface level attraction, or does it go deeper, closer to love?

I only had one crush , now i dont have any , i can only invest my time to one person though so im being patient