...After she finished my makeup, I caught a glimpse of myself and didn’t feel pretty. But I thought, "What do I know? She’s the professional." She offered to redo it, but I told myself, "If I look terrible, it’s probably because she’s not competent. If I step in, it’ll just add another layer of stress to my already full plate today. Plus, guiding her to fix it won’t suddenly make her more skilled, and I’m no expert either—that’s why I hired her in the first place."