MARRY A MAN who is dominant. a high value woman seeks a dominant male. i'm talking about MENTAL DOMINANCE. a man who guides you when you're feeling lost, a man who is masculine enough to protect you, provide you and lead you. a man who allows you to be most soft and feminine around him. a mentally weak man is worse than a physically weak man. you’ve to know that his strong muscles and abs can literally disappear in a month, but his mental level can have permanent effects on you.