Aside from the specific context to this I know I can not relate to as a white person but as a women any time men in general are insecure about them self for various reason they will always take it out on women bc well their also socially condition with their insecurity to believe in misogynistic ideologies which is already a dehumanizing ideology so to grow up and never grow out of the harm of external unnecessary negative perception other insecure pple will make and project on you1/2