When I was in high school and my life got turned upside down, I remember asking my aunt if I could still go to college. We’d been at her house about 3 days after she picked us up from the police station, and she was trying to take a breath after rearranging her whole life so we wouldn’t go to foster care. She looked at me and asked “what grade are you in?” Because she wasn’t exactly sure, I hold her 9th and she said, “ok, we have time! If you want to go to college, and you and your mom had a