She told me my insecurities and issues are mine to figure out on my own, since I’m an adult (last part was extra condescending). This was after I said I felt unattractive, especially to her and I would like some reassurance. Mind u, I treated her like the second coming of Aphrodite. This wasn’t the first time she said something like that and I still staid but it was one of the first things that made me start opening my eyes to her true self.