We’ve been dating for 3 months. Respectfully, I fell back because he insinuated that I was too clingy. Now, he says that he misses “how I used to be,” he “f’d up” not being ready for the “check ins” because he wasn’t secure in how I “operate” when we’re apart and didn’t want to get attached. Since I’ve gotten used to not taking initiative to communicate, idk how, but he’s going to have to bring me back to the mental space I was in when we first met. I feel like he didn’t value me. Am I wrong?