Stopped mopping, stopped doing errands for him, stopped absolutely everything. This house has been disgusting and I couldn’t take it anymore and blew up on him. His response- “why haven’t you been doing anything? You could have just as easily done the things you want me to do.” Am I wrong for expecting a grown ass man to help keep the apartment clean, take care of the cats without reminders, and do other basic things without me having to tell him or do it all myself???