You really have to go by how people make you feel. You have to stop second guessing it and thinking you're not being fair by doing that. I see a pattern in clients. They will not really "feel it" with a guy, but they will second guess themselves and think they need to keep dating him to see. You really don't. It's either there or it isn't. Every time this just prolongs the inevitable. They end up hurting because now they have been dating 1/2