2) cruel and ugly, they lost friends. But they also made new ones. They got involved with making a LGBTQ+ safe space. They left school and thrived at college. They went to pride, they had boyfriends and girlfriends. This was the way for 5 years. Then a year ago I noticed some changes, the hair changed, the clothes changed, they found a new boyfriend, they decided they wanted a different name. And then they told me they thought weren’t trans after all. I said that’s ok. It doesn’t matter what🪡