Especially if you have your own family/children. You don't want them to be exposed to that. But again it's even more than that. It's that you can't live in two fields. Every time you talk to your family weird stuff happens. You're no longer in your timeline. It's like they take over and change your timeline. You get tired of it. You eventually realize you have to stop dancing two fields and pick the one you want to stay in. 3/3