There’s this concept that fascinates me called human giver syndrome It basically says that in a white, patriarchal, capitalist worldview, certain folks (women, non-men and ppl of color) are treated as the “givers,” and considered secondary citizens to the, “takers” (cis white men) Giver identity is wrapped up in how much can you give?? Without consideration for your wellbeing And the most fucked up part is this