Pursuing studies in higher level is not the problem at all. If it's me I always admire & acknowledge academia people. But the context here is u'r in your late 20's & looking for partner? So for me who also perempuan in late 20's, i prefer if my partner have continuous plan, full scholarship tak menjamin financial stability unless you being offered & secure a job like cth once finished phd terus dpt jadi lecture ke.