The real reasons someone who is avoidant has one foot out the door in relationships. 1. They feel unhappy because they have unmet needs which they’re hardly capable of realizing, let alone communicating 2. They feel suffocated by the reassurance & connection needs of their partner and with each request, no matter how small, they feel more trapped and like they’re losing their cherished autonomy 3. The relationship is unhealthy & not emotionally safe 4. All of the above