Am I the a**hole? A girl I was loosely friends w/about 3 years ago gave me a notebook. It contained various business ideas that she had. It's important to note that I really didn't want this notebook, didn't ask for it and tried to get out of taking it. Alas, I ended up with it. We hung out maybe 3 or 4 times total. I have no idea what happened to this notebook. I haven't even looked through it b/c again I didn't want it. Now 3 years later she wants it back & is very upset that I don't have it.