Same! I had a few friends na I would always reach out to kasi I genuinely liked hanging out with them. Kaso, they always decline — I mean, gets, we're all busy adults — but what irked me is they don't make plans or suggestions when they're available. But I would see them hang out with other people, so I knew they weren't busy — they were probably just too busy for me. Ayun. 🤷‍♀ Friendships & communication work two ways.

ngl mas okay na ganitong mindset kesa magpakastress kung bakit sila biglang umiwas, like duh di naman sa kanila iikot ang mundo

It started for me when I observed na ako na lang bumabati ng happy birthday, then some would reach only pag mag kailangan. Now it doesn't bother me at all not having them in my life. It's all about being reciprocated and not begging.