My husband and I have been married for nearly three years. We have no strict rules for each other, and I am a quite laid-back wife. I allow my husband to enjoy his social life, and he gives me the same freedom. He always brings me along wherever he goes, making it clear that he is married and who his wife is. We are both grown adults who don't try to parent each other or constantly remind one another how to act as husband and wife. (1/2)