Long ago I dated an older (by almost a decade) woman I considered a get She was smart, sexy, a great IT job, loved me. I felt unworthy in the presence of her & her girlfriends. I felt like I'd hit the lottery For lunch dates, I'd pick her up at work. She always insisted I come in to get her. It was always something like "I need you to carry something out for me" Much later I realized she was showing me off to her co-workers to make them jealous of her younger man. I was a Stepford boyfriend!