A guy I dated several years ago slid into my DM recently. When we first met, we both just got out of bad relationships and were childless. In a nutshell, he went on and on about how good of a woman I was to him, he's grown alot as a man, and is now ready to settle down, start a family, and get married. I asked "what have you done to prepare yourself to be a husband "? He said "well I've been in therapy for a while, I pray, and I've been working a job consistently". (I'm already side-eyeing)